Tuesday, 14 October 2014

Love in all it's glory

Ever heard of the saying:

“If you love someone, let them go. If it comes back to you it’s yours. If it doesn't it was never yours to being with”

Whoever wrote this must have some been high on some really good weed.
Who in their sane mind would let someone they love go! And WHY!? (No! I am not a creep/ stalker or any such associate noun).

For all those philosophers and theorist, I have just one thing to say to you. F&#$ YOU!! Come on! You cannot be serious about this. We are talking about the love of our lives and you want us to stand by and watch as the most important person leaves our life forever? Like I said what have you been smoking and where can I get some?

I believe that if you want something, so get it! You love someone, TELL THEM! You don’t want them to leave, TELL THEM! For all we know they might be hoping for you stop them.

For example, let’s apply this theory to man’s best friend – a dog. Sorry cat lovers, but dogs are way more adorable and not to mention more useful than cats, if it isn't obvious by now, me = dog lover. We call them our best friends for a reason (Hint: {for those who don’t get subtlety} we LOVE them). What will happen if we leave them out in the backyard without a leash? Any guesses? BINGO! THEY WILL RUN AWAY!! And that’s what happens my friends, when you let your loved ones go. They believe that they were never needed in the first place and would start doubting the very fundamentals of the relationship.

This all being said, please don’t consider me as a creep who wouldn't take no for an answer. I genuinely believe that “forever and beyond” to work, to actually happen, giving up is not an option. You truly deeply madly love someone, you fight for them. You show them how much they mean to you. And when they leave you show them that nothing and I mean no difference, no obstacle, no fight / argument can break what they have together. Again am just confirming, I am NOT a psychopath.

And I believe that they will come back. They see you trying so hard and believing so much in the idea of an “us”,believe me they will stop.

Bear in mind this is not a motivational speech for a stalker. This is a message for those who believe in the universe giving them what they want, if they are meant to have it. This is for those who feel that if it is meant to happen, it will. This is for those laze arses who believe that they should wait for their love to come back to them. 

Erm… guys not to break your bubble or anything but, this is not how the universe works!  The universe ain't giving you anything if you don’t move your butt and work for it.

In the end all I have to say is the people who think this way are the biggest laziest mother $%#@#* in the world. You want something, GO GET IT! Don’t wait for someone to hand it to you on a silver platter. 
There truly is something as “too late”.