Love in all it's glory

Ever heard of the saying:

“If you love someone, let them go. If it comes back to you it’s yours. If it doesn't it was never yours to being with”

Whoever wrote this must have some been high on some really good weed.
Who in their sane mind would let someone they love go! And WHY!? (No! I am not a creep/ stalker or any such associate noun).

For all those philosophers and theorist, I have just one thing to say to you. F&#$ YOU!! Come on! You cannot be serious about this. We are talking about the love of our lives and you want us to stand by and watch as the most important person leaves our life forever? Like I said what have you been smoking and where can I get some?

I believe that if you want something, so get it! You love someone, TELL THEM! You don’t want them to leave, TELL THEM! For all we know they might be hoping for you stop them.

For example, let’s apply this theory to man’s best friend – a dog. Sorry cat lovers, but dogs are way more adorable and not to mention more useful than cats, if it isn't obvious by now, me = dog lover. We call them our best friends for a reason (Hint: {for those who don’t get subtlety} we LOVE them). What will happen if we leave them out in the backyard without a leash? Any guesses? BINGO! THEY WILL RUN AWAY!! And that’s what happens my friends, when you let your loved ones go. They believe that they were never needed in the first place and would start doubting the very fundamentals of the relationship.

This all being said, please don’t consider me as a creep who wouldn't take no for an answer. I genuinely believe that “forever and beyond” to work, to actually happen, giving up is not an option. You truly deeply madly love someone, you fight for them. You show them how much they mean to you. And when they leave you show them that nothing and I mean no difference, no obstacle, no fight / argument can break what they have together. Again am just confirming, I am NOT a psychopath.

And I believe that they will come back. They see you trying so hard and believing so much in the idea of an “us”,believe me they will stop.

Bear in mind this is not a motivational speech for a stalker. This is a message for those who believe in the universe giving them what they want, if they are meant to have it. This is for those who feel that if it is meant to happen, it will. This is for those laze arses who believe that they should wait for their love to come back to them. 
Erm… guys not to break your bubble or anything but, this is not how the universe works!  The universe ain't giving you anything if you don’t move your butt and work for it.

In the end all I have to say is the people who think this way are the biggest laziest mother $%#@#* in the world. You want something, GO GET IT! Don’t wait for someone to hand it to you on a silver platter. There truly is something as “too late”.

Moving on…

One of the most common stages of life that everyone is bound to go through is that of change. What really defines us, the real person we are, is the way we respond to these changes.

What I have observed over the years of my life and those of people around me is that, nothing in life is constant except perhaps the fact that circumstances are always going to change.  

We anticipate our lives to unfold in a particular way and put ourselves through difficult situations to attain this visioned ideal life.  After all the hurdles, we struggle through and not get the desired results we are bound to be upset but this is the harsh reality of life.

This isn’t me saying that you should not fight for what you believe in, this is me saying that after we, in our individual capacity, have tried all that we can, we should not fight the change but accept it and move on.

Living in the past or even thinking about the past would not just upset you but most definitely affect a potentially brighter future. We need to learn to accept certain aspects of our life (if they don’t pan out the way we thought it would) and learn to the live with the change.

Many people immediately resort to “regretting” their actions and assuming that it was an utter waste. This is wrong. Nothing in life is every wasteful or a regret.

I have gone through many not-so-ideal situations and have made some utterly impossible decisions and have done everything I could (however stupid and impractical my actions / decisions might seem) to stick to them but never have I once regretted my actions.

I most definitely will continue to make rash decisions and almost always find myself in a pickle, but one thing I know is I would not regret it.

Living life is all about fighting and striving to attain the impossible. But what we should remember is that just because our life took a tiny detour doesn’t mean we should give up totally and start regretting our actions. 

Change is ever green and denying it only makes our life harder.

Let the past be the past, bygones be bygones. Accept the changes and move on. Spending time doubting and regretting our actions only makes us more miserable and dissatisfied with life.

Life has much more to offer… Just give change a chance... 

Perfect.....

Often I have heard people say, 

"I wish I had the perfect life." 

" Man how hard is it to get the prefect girl/guy" 

"Why can't my life be perfect like theirs'?"

This lead to me thinking about the word perfect and how do we know that something or someone is perfect?

So what exactly is perfect... isn't all of this just one big preconception.... Is there really something as the perfect guy? the perfect home? the perfect life?? 

From all that I have seen (which although isn't much, is most definitely pretty darn impressive), what I have understood is that nothing can really be perfect.... but it still is...  

Ok... now that I put that down it doesn't seem as insightful as it did in my head... 

May this would clear things up...

When my brother was young he had this blanket, without which he would never sleep. No matter where we went his little blanket would always be with him. And you should have seen this blanket. It wasn't a pretty blanket or even a comfortable one. It was some piece of cloth my mum had bought, a really long time ago. It was incredibly worn out and has these enormous holes. It would barely keep my brother warm but for him it was the Perfect Blanket. 

So what I am trying to say is that Nothing is really perfect unless you want it to be and no matter how horrible it might seem to others, we all have our worn out blankets that is just perfect for us.